Sweet Treat Traps

I had a client today who was sad he didn't lose any weight today.

He didn't see it as a "win".

 " There was Valentine's Day, and then it was a special anniversary; and my spouse brings sweets home all the time." 

But after a week of many of these special treats, he didn't gain any weight. That's a win, friends.

When we eat well at other times, our bodies handle those extra calories with grace. This is the point of metabolic training with consistent meals and enough fiber and healthy fat at each of those meals--> it leads to flexibility.

 " I'm sure I've gained weight." 

The scale said the exact same number. The proof was there that even with all those extra treats, the body is able to maintain homeostasis. No weight gain.

You can drink. You can eat sweets. You can have treats. 

And still not gain weight.

 " I'm sure its because I've eaten too much sugar. Sugar makes you fat."

The problem isn't just in the sugar (which does cause problems to the metabolism overall)-- I believe the problem starts with our self-talk traps.  If we constantly create confusion about sugar between our willpower (sugar is bad, it makes me fat) and our body  (where we have created a loop of desire and satisfaction with sugar that has been repeated by thousands of positive/happy experiences and reinforced heavily by dopamine)

- Sugar is not a bad food that makes us fat. -

We must change the conversation inside of ourselves.

Once the conversation inside starts to shift, we can move away from a dieting mindset.

Who wants to live losing and gaining the same ten pounds over and over?

Here's a simple way to get off that merry-go-round:

1) Start noticing what negative things you say to yourself about food

2) Find a new phrase to use about sweets, like " I enjoy this food" 

3) Figure out the context for the craving (is it emotions, physical, medical, environment)

4) Feed your body with the right food.

How to feed your body when the craving comes? Here's a new handout called Sweet Swaps that will help guide you to make good choices so that you can get a handle on those cravings.

Sweet Swap Tips by Nora Shank, RD